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Subject: males's pressure to mate
Posted by too young to be a mommy on May 27, 1999 at 10:54:10:
I woke up last night at 2:30 with this sinking feeling that something wasn't quite right. I knew that my female was in estuaris and that my male would be persuing her as he had in the last few months during her time. This time things were different. As most animals do, he was biting her neck and she was visibally not ready for his advances. Both of my babies are only 8 months old and my male had developed his bald spot at 6 months (signs of the bald spot developed earlier than that). Before last night, he would only cling to her, but last night he was clearly seen biting her neck and pulling at her skin. She yelled at him but he refused to let go. I ended up separating them for the rest of the night. She seemed releaved to be away from him and his persistence but stressed at the separation, but he still only had one thing on his mind. My question is, other than separation and having my male fixed, are there any other means of "birth control?" The stress of separation isn't good, but I just feel as if she is too young to have babies yet (which she seems to agree with by her actions), but he is VERY aggressive with her. I would like to have grandchildren eventually, but not right now. Any advise would be appreciated, and please no cut-down responses since they will not do any postitive good and that is the purpose of this message board: to do good. Thank you and sorry that it is a bit long.
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