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Subject: Are you starting this here too? ok..
Posted by Kim on February 28, 2000 at 22:18:34 from 216.207.193.31
In Reply to: There should not be an age on getting a Glider. posted by Baby 13 on February 28, 2000 at 21:01:01:
This is a copy and paste of what I posted on the other board. The main issue on gliders at a young age is parents. Parents are the biggest problem besides being responsible and mature. Lets take a real life example here, this happend to me and Im 17(now, not then), not 13. My glider had an accident and burned his feet, he NEEDED a vet BUT my parents(mainly one of them) said no, we're not taking that thing to a vet(even if I could've gone myself without him) he will be fine. See, at a young age you have people running your life, you CAN NOT be free to do what you want to do. Parents dont understand a lot of the time. Burned feet is very serious because of the blistering/mutilation/infection. I tried to tell my stepdad this but he didnt listen and didnt wanna be bothered. I had to try and take away my gliders pain and suffering as best I could with no vet- no antibiotics which he needed and no topical cream to soothe the burn and help heal. Thank god I finally got him to the vet and taken care of! Do you know how hard it is to go through the parent issues? I have been there buddy, this is the reason I would never say a glider is a good pet for a young person- because they have parents running their life. Can 13 year olds drive? I dont think so, how can they rush a glider to the vet if the parents cant/wont/dont wanna be bothered? These are some of my points. How quick can a young kid respond to an emergency, that a glider might need a vet trip? There are also other reasons about teens and life changes but I know everybody else covered that- and its true. You'll start dating and all that good stuff that comes with growing up. You'll become busier with friends, it happend to me at 13/14 and once I became homeschooled I got my gliders(not by my choice) and had all the time in the world for them because they were more important to me than friends who were just "aquantainces". Im a backwards teen if ever you knew one. Just keep the parent issues in mind..
Here is a link to the other board on the same topic. Age shouldnt matter
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