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Subject: Re: Need some advice, bonding stuff
Posted by Bourbon on August 27, 1998 at 00:44:00:

In Reply to: Need some advice, bonding stuff posted by Dina on August 26, 1998 at 23:21:55:

Dina,
Lets go back to the beginning, DON'T hold her let her hold you. the more indepant she feels the more she will come back to you. Remeber that daytime is bonding time, night time is playtime. She wants to play and explore at night.. just think of what a kid wants to do in a toy store. Then you find out what limit you MUST set. She needs to look at you as a safe zone.. a place to go if she gets scared or wants to know she isn't a lone. play hide and seek with her.. she will love it. mine loves the curtains..they love to hide behind it. Cuddle during the day.. If you hold her she feels confined, she will fight for her independance. give her the freedom to check things out.. she will utilize that freedom well. watch her be aware there isn't any dangers..let her rhomp and play..I repeat DON"T try to hold her let her hold you....

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