: I have had Tamur and Gidget for about 6 or 8 months, and I have always thought that they were male and female. However I was recently thinking about it, and Tamur isn't getting the typical bald spot on his head, and the more I think about it, I'm not sure that he has the pom pom that everyone talks about either, what I am hoping is that someone can point me in the direction of some clarifying pictures so that i can make sure, and also, when should that bald spot appear?