Hi was just wondering... what is better Male or Female? Should I get 1 Glider or 2? I heard that if I get two gliders at the same time that they would bond with eachother and not with me. I also heard that if I get one glider that it my die from loneliness. I am sooo confused! I have alaready kinda writen one like this but I didnt get really good results. Please help me!!!