i take alex tomorrow to get him nuetered. i got a small cage fixed up with shredded paper that he likes to hide in and two little bowls to put his juice and baby cereal in after surgury. should i bring his family so he won't get scared being separated from them, i don't want him to feel abandoned for 6 hours!! will i be able to tell him apart from lucy, i mean when he's nuetered will his bald spot disappear? i'm really suffering separation anxiety here!!!! i hope the doctor doesn't loose him in the office.