My bf and I both have a glider. I have a male. He has a female. Unfortunately we don’t live with one another. We got them bonded yesterday when they were just introduced for maybe the 4th time. Still won’t leave unattended. We are worried if we just let them have play dates so to speak would that cause depression in one if not both of them? We don’t want that at all. We don’t know if we should wait until we are able to move in with one another.