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Bonding Help, please!!!

Dec 28, 2018

 Bonding Help, please!!!

Hello everyone! I am new to this site so I am hoping some of you can really help me out. I have owned gliders in the past but honestly never knew what I was doing. Years later and a ton more research, I am confident that I'm doing things the right way this time. I just recently brought home two 3 month olds. A boy and a girl. My daughter just turned 9 and she is really bonding with her boy. The female which is mine is a different story. She is always crabbing, everything I do she crabs at. She is currently sleeping in my bra and she is quiet, but she always crabs when I peek in. I am trying to give her space but it just seems she hates me. I am getting a bit discouraged. I'm not trying to force myself on her but I do want her to trust me so I do keep her with me in her pouch during the day. She never gets upset when she's in her cage and I feed her at night. it's just during the day when she's in my pouch she's just cranky. Any help would be appreciated. thank you all for taking the time to read. Happy New Year!

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Dec 31 2018 : 12:49:18 PM
LilBitBabies313
Thank you so much! It actually got alot better since then. I took your advice yesterday and today she has been very tame and quiet. again thank you for your reply! Happy New Year! =)

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Dec 29 2018 : 11:47:35 PM
BYK_Chainsaw
I don't think gliders hate. they sleep in the day, your waking her up, her NATURAL defense is to crab, its to scare away the intruder threatening her sleeping safely. I would limit daytime pouch/ bra time to 2 hours, or if longer don't disturb her. Better to have night time activities, try to get her to freely walk on you, tent/glider room time. also, IMPORTANT, it takes time to bond, some glider take much longer to adjust to a super large human being their friend.

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