In Reply to: Picking up gliders, and getting them into pockets posted by Joe on April 08, 1999 at 03:10:40:

There's no such thing as an ignorant question...it's good that you asked. Some people will try picking them up by the tail, and the tail can come off! I think you have gotten some good advice already, but I wanted to add that if you scoop him up gently from behind (when he's sleepy), you can sort of let him be in a little ball. Then, round your hand and slide him into your pocket so that his little nails and legs don't come into contact with the fabric (so he can't resist). If you handle him with confidence, he will sense it and have more trust in you. He may crab at first, but as long as you are being gentle, that's okay. I used safety pins along the top of the pocket at first. In my opinion, it is really important that you start carrying him and holding him, even if you are afraid and he is crabby at first. He will be around for 7-15 years, most likely, and you and he will be a lot happier if you are bonded and close. Try reading Clara's bonding page for more advice on things you can do to increase the bond. Also, not to long ago I posted my advice on bonding on this board - you might see if that helps at all. Oh, one more thing...once he starts settling into the pocket idea, let him wander around on you in a safe area (bathroom, for ex). When he jumps off, gently return him to the pocket. He will learn it is home base. You need to take charge a little at this point...you are the dad, and what is best for him is to bond to you so he won't be lonely. Be gentle, but don't be afraid to put him in the pocket even if he's mad about it at first.
Oops, ER's on! Good luck...Let us know how it goes!
:) Tiffany

: I know this may sound kind of ignorant on my behalf, but how am I supposed to pick up my glider? I have had him for about a month and am yet to have to pick him up, say from his sides. For the most part I hold my hand out in front of him and he jumps on.

: My concern is should I try to "pick him up" so he is comfortable if I ever need to, or can I get by with how I am doing it?

: One other thing that has nothing to do with picking him up. He has no intention of going inside a pocket. I have tried numerous times, with different shirts, coats, etc. and he just wont. Is this a major set back in the bonding process if I can't get him in?

: Thanks so much,

: Joe

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