I Understand Completely.! I just went through the same trouble of needing a cagemate. It took what seemed like FOREVER! there were so many ads in the classifieds, and so many emails to go through and then seeing what my budget was, to see if i could afford them. AND then there was the different ages and trying to guess the size difference if they didnt have a photo, and wondering how healthy they were. I got a decent deal.
I got:
A smallish cage, some paint coming off
the glider itself
and 2 different kinds of pouches.
All for 25 dollars.. your deal will come... I posted MULTIPLE ads on the same place. i waited a week or so.. and posted again..
Now i have my second glider Tinker Bell.
And i have to say ive already fallen in love with her.